The recruiting process can be overwhelming, so it's crucial that parents understand their roles. Choosing where to attend college and play volleyball is a life-changing decision. Having your support means everything to your son or daughter, whether they vocalize it to you or not.

Here are some things to keep in mind through the recruiting process.

1. Visit college campuses. Accompany your child on several college visits. Walk around and encourage your son or daughter to interact with students and talk to them about their experience at the school.

2. Support your son or daughter, but allow them to make their own decisions. Most teenagers need guidance, which doesn't mean doing everything for them. Remember, they will soon be adults living on their own--treat them as such. It's important to be supportive, not bossy.

3. Making phone calls is one of the most important factors in recruiting for your child, but you should not be the one making those calls. College coaches want to hear from your son or daughter. They could potentially be investing more than $250,000 in him or her, so it's crucial that your son or daughter builds a relationship with the coaching staff. Parents should wait to contact coaches directly until they plan a visit. At that point, you can get involved to book things according to the coach's suggestions.

4. No yelling! I interact with clients in their homes and in my offices, and I have witnessed some pretty intense arguing where I have to step in and mediate. Once you start arguing about recruiting, you lose your son or daughter's attention. They really need to feel your support while going through this process.

5. Be sure to have a serious discussion about attitude and remaining humble. Having a bad attitude can cost your son or daughter a scholarship offer.

6. Handle the playing-time issue with aplomb. It's difficult when your student-athlete is working really hard, but doesn't get an opportunity to play. As a parent, you need to focus on having a positive attitude and encouraging your son or daughter. It's easy to get frustrated, but try to avoid talking negatively about the coach or the program.

Make the recruiting process fun and memorable. Your child only has one chance to get recruited. This is a serious commitment, and showing your support is the best way to guide your son or daughter through the process.